For where two or three gather in my name, there I am with them. ~ Matthew 18:20
There is no weave without every thread, no song without every voice. When we gather together we enact an alchemy of presence and creative potential that did not exist before the constellation was formed. We all bring our own unique stories, ancestries and cosmologies to the Circle that reflect and inspire all who show up to the circle.
The Circle teaches us about Life as how we engage and stand in relationship with other beings is the training ground for stewarding with a life of peace or over reactivity. It shows us how we give and receive and the impulses behind each action. It teaches us about our ability to truly listen and from where within ourselves we speak.
The Circle has its own voice. When we gather in its formational prowess and listen, we will hear a voice of collective wisdom that can help guide us through our most tender tangles together, hand in hand. All that needs be said by you, that is living on your heart, may be said by another and you get to confront that ever present mystery of oneness, where we all share the same breath.
How do you play in this Circle of Life? Share, show up, dance, sing, hide away, shy away, lay down, let go and pray?
Before you enter the Circle take a moment to pause and reflect on what brought you to this container. Can you tend this circle with us? Are you prepared to engage in a prayerful and sacred space? What does that mean to you? Your intention and presence will greatly influence our time together.
*All of you is welcome.
This space requires an awareness that we are navigating tender terrain as devotional practices can upwell and dislodge oppressive, fear based belief systems.
Although I am the one tending this circle, we are all equals and each of us carries a vital piece of wisdom to share. I am navigating this life along with you and always appreciate reflection if there is a ripple in our waters caused by me.
Collective Agreements:
Confidentiality~ In order to reveal and heal ourselves we must uphold confidence. Please refrain from sharing any names and experiences of others. You can share your experience without names or alluding to anyone else- period.
*Permissionary Space~ It is up to you to tend yourself if you need something to feel safe and comfortable. You do not need permission to take care of yourself. The caveat to this is- if there are disruptions/comments/actions that create unsafety for others we will address this and it may result in removal from the group. Any discriminatory language around race/culture/identity/gender/age etc. and/or direct insult toward anyone in the group will result in immediate removal from the group.
This is not a space for discussing the many divisive narratives hailing from our socio-political pulpits. You may be witnessed in your personal frustrations and griefs around them, as we are all on our own journey with what is being brought forward through the collective wound, and we can send prayers out to all who suffer under the hands of oppression. This is an inclusive space for ALL voices.
Circle Etiquette ~ Share from the heart, listen from the heart, pray from the heart. Please be as present as possible. Stay alive to the present conversation at hand with awareness. Watch your triggers as they are teachers. We are all brilliant mirrors for one another.
- Absolutely no cross talk. If someone wants your support, they will ask.
- In witnessing big emotion it is natural for us to want to reach out and console. This can greatly disrupt an emergent healing. Please maintain sacred witness. It is good practice in listening to know when to step in with a hug and when to let the breakdown happen without cleaning anything up. Nothing is broken. We all have the medicine inside of us to meet our most challenging moments.
- Honor time. We all have novels within us to share. So that everyone can share and have space, please attune to how much time you speak. Are you the one who takes 3-4 extra minutes over everyone else? Are you the one who cuts yourself short? WAIT (Why am I talking), is a great way to take pause and really honor your energy with your voice.
- BE ON TIME. You will not be permitted to enter after 5 mins.
Commitment~ We reap what we sow. The more you show up for this community and space the more it will feed you.
Disclaimers:You take full responsibility for yourself. I am not a medical professional or licensed mental health therapist.